Getting your boyfriend back is easy if you know what your doing. Did you both breakup recently? Was it hard to live together? Did you always fight? Whatever it was, there is ALWAYS a way to get back together. You need to first take a deep breath, then focus.
You need to take responsibility for what you could have done better, then either accept your man for who he is, and be prepared to live the life with him and compromise. If you both were separated for another reason, perhaps you both agree on the reasoning for separating, maybe you don't.
Get your man back fast? Yes you heard right. Are you doing the things you need to do to make things happen? I don't think so. If you were, you wouldn't have been looking for this website, you would be spending time with your man right now and you would be happy as a clam.
You lie awake at night wishing your ex would call you on the phone, talk to you and give you a chance. You think about your ex like you have never thought about them before. They aren't yours anymore.
Remember, your ex is the same person that they were when you first met them and fell in love with them.
If you were to ask me, after everything I have picked up throughout the years, there is no such thing as "growing apart." Once you begin to learn my techniques, you will understand the reasons why you guys are not together anymore. It's not because you "grew apart." One of the main reasons is because you didnt trust an alternative.
Better yet, you never gave it a try or you might have never even thought of it. This is what we introduce to your damaged relationship; An alternative lifestyle, schedule, or situation between you and your ex.
Maybe you changed your mind or you feel like you are ready to accept your ex's apology or vice versa: Wishing your ex would accept your apology! Now is the time to present the way you feel to your ex and your ex will love it. This is the method behind the concept.
I know it is hard when you lose your ex, girlfriend, boyfriend or spouse. It hurts. The thing you need to grasp first is if you indeed want them back. There are tons of things you can do once you make this decision; to get them back in your life for good.
About three years ago I was near the end of a long relationship. I was dating an opera singer and me & her had been together 6 years. We fought regularly, but had spent alot of time learning about each other so we were able to always work out problems.
We started thinking about getting married and then oops, she got pregnant. I was there for her all throughout the pregnancy although she began to spend more & more time with a friend of mine, shopping with him for towels, cribs, etc. The day my son was born I didn't even know where she was. I got to the hospital and this friend of mine was there with her.
The next thing I know, she moves out with this friend of mine. At first I did not want her back, but I had to take responsiblity for what had gone wrong. I was a jealous man and didn't listen to her when she needed someone to talk to, see this guy was there for her instead.
So I decided I wanted her back and so then I started practicing an entirely new & practical approach to our relationship in order to get my girlfriend back. I began to listen when I got the chance. Listen to her and "get into" what she was talking about. This is instead of the usual "go in one ear and out the other" while thinking things like "Is she going to spend time with me now?" or "I wonder how long she is going to talk to me." Before I knew it we were back together and we BOTH kicked the dude out in the street. He lost all his privileges and me & her laugh about the fact she was with him to this day.
John Dogherty
GetBackTogetherNow Member
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